I wasn’t looking to get Married. I was out there just enjoying life.

I meet Sharon and I knew by the 3rd date that something was different. I knew that I had found my life’s partner!

Now, nearly 20 years later; I can tell you that I was Right!

Sharon is so supportive of me, no matter how many mistakes I make . She is at my side, my Partner, my Friend, my Mentor, and my Cheer Leader.

When I am weak; she is my Strength!

When I fall; she Picks me up!

When I am Lost: she Finds me!

When I Win; she holds my arm in Victory.

My wife; Sharon, she is “The”  Benefit of being Married!

My Wife and Kids have been  “Number ONE”  on my list of The Benefits of Being Married!

I am not a professional writer, my daughter, Nicole can run circles around me with her writing skills; she is Awesome!

My daughter Stephanie can talk about anything to anyone and connect immediately. You will see Stephanie some day as a politician that gets results and helps Millions of People! 

I don’t always have those skills.  I have to work hard at it.

My son; Bob, can take any scenario and map it out (in his mind) and build a Blueprint that concludes into a finished, positive results accomplishment.  At 13 years old he is writing a book and it’s almost done!

My Kids get those skills from my Wife! 

And, that is one of The Benefits of Being Married!!

Hi,

Are there ‘magic’ words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?…

I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer…”How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”

Click here more info and stories

BUT…

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WARNING!
***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without
an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let’s
go over what message almost NEVER
works.

and worse…

Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

And the EMERGENCY-

“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?

So, I won’t go on and on…

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here’s the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’

So…

Let’s look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?”
“What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now…

Before you call you need to do the
“Set Up”…which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing…but needs to
be plausible.

But more importantly…

Click here more info and stories

************
2nd WARNING!
************

Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!

Rooting For You,
T Dub

Click here for more info on: The Magic of Making up!

Sometimes Life has a way to go a lot Faster than you think it is.  They say that time flies!

Slow things down a little.  Remember why you are with your Partner and what Life is Really about.

Take some time Today and send your Loved One a Note and Flowers!

Dating is exhausting. Let Matchmaker.com help you find true love.

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For the older single, dating can get intricate. But you need not live your life alone. Whether you consider yourself a boomer, senior single, mature, or “third ager” this article will guide you towards ways of finding a companion.

Before diving into the dating pool, it is advisable for the senior single to do some self-assessment. The most important question to ask is, are you ready for a relationship?

You see, one may be coming from a long relationship. If the relationship was a happy one you may not have come to terms with the fact that it has ended, reason(s) not withstanding. If it was an unhappy one, there may still be soreness.

It may be advisable to postpone dating if (1) you have not come to terms with losing a spouse, (2) you are clinically depressed, or (3) you simply don’t feel like dating. Seeking professional is a good thing in most cases.

Something else to consider is that senior dating brings together two individuals with a long history. Long history usually means more skeletons in the closet.

Older singles often wonder whether they are attractive enough to find a date. Some go to great lengths in trying to improve themselves. While self-improvement is not a bad thing at any age, you don’t need to change who you are.

To date successfully, you need to have confidence in yourself. Simply make any self-improvements necessary for putting forth a good image.

Senior singles are often also concerned about what others might think about their dating interests. There is nothing wrong with seeking love or companionship at any age. In fact, your happiness, once you find the right person, may well rub on those close to you in a very positive way.

What if you have a medical condition or physical limitations? Well, don’t look at your condition as an impediment to meeting new people. And, be forthright, right from the beginning when you do meet a potential date. Remember that you are looking for someone who’s willing to accept you as you are.

Where do you find a date? To find a date you need to meet people. This means going where people go. Parties, shows, library, cruises, speed dating events, and volunteer activities are examples of places to meet people.

But for dating purposes, online senior personals sites beat all other places and methods of meeting people hands-down. These sites are open to people over 40 (or 50 depending on the site). And, they are very vibrant with activity.

There are several distinct advantages to using internet senior personals sites, including:

1. A pool of older singles

2. Each person is looking for a date

3. No young people to spoil the fun.

If you are 40 or older, and seeking a date with someone of or near your age, you owe it to yourself to at least try internet dating – most sites offer free trials. By posting and responding to personal ads in a senior dating site, you might find yourself going from no date to lots of dates in a very short time.

Meet thousands of gorgeous older singles: Find a top-rated, reputable senior dating site now. David Kamau is an online dating enthusiast who writes articles and dating service reviews.

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Nowadays on the Internet you’ll find a lot of totally free online dating services. The offering of these service for free have both negative and positive results. People should weigh the odds before deciding if they want to use it or not.

Match made on online highway

Online dating is one service provided in the internet that has experienced fast growth. From the day it started and was offered online, many people have subscribed to this way of online dating. The tough competition among service providers has led to offering the service to the public totally for free.

Free services

Online dating sites that provide their service totally free abound in the internet. There are websites also that collects fees, mostly on a monthly basis. But like the natural tendency of the person, they will go for free as long as they are satisfied with the services. There are the good and the bad sides that totally free online dating bring.

Good Sides

Online dating with totally free service gives opportunity for people that has limited budget to still be able to access the internet and search for a possible date. It connects people around the world for a totally free online dating service.

It gives people the chance to try how it works. It is like a practice ground. Some people will totally abandon the chance of using this service just because they do not know how to use it and practicing will require a fee. Some people will try to use the free site as a practice ground but if it proved to be good, maybe they will use it permanently. Many successful marriages have come from free online dating services.

Negative Sides

Along with the good sides, there are also the minuses brought offering the dating services for free. Everybody could access the site because it is free. Responsible and not responsible users will use it because there is no obligation required for using it. Scammer will flood the area because it is free. Being offered for free and without real obligations, totally free online dating service providers are a haven for people without genuine intentions. There are those people who will access this site just for the fun of scamming. The worst thing is that these scammer will affect the many people who wanted to make good use of the site.

There is not much fund to maintain the website. You cannot expect high quality of service from totally free online dating service. Because of the fact that they do not collect fees, there is not much budget to maintain it and provide the protection needed by the genuine users. It will be the responsibility of the user to protect themselves and spot which among the users are scammer and the truly interested.

Free online dating services are offered free for all the good intentions of the site owners. The fact that there are people with not so good intentions does not change this. For all good measures, these sites are good and useful to many people. It is the decision of the person now if he wanted to use the service or not. Weigh the consequences before you will sign up for such services because you will only have yourself to shoulder those consequences. If you think that you can not stand the hassles brought by such free services, it will be better for you to decide not to use it.

Diane Winter provides a lot of useful advice to get the most success on free online dating services. For further information visit also Choosing Free Adult Online Dating Services or About Adult Online Dating And Personals to get some more ideas on Why You Should Trust Your Own Online Dating Guide.

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 I should actually call my Blog: The Positive side of Being Married!

You will find news, articles, tips and advice about dating on www.SingleYes.com

But, more importantly, I will discuss with you the Benefits that I have received as the result of being Married.

I am fortunate to have a Great wife; Sharon! And as an added benefit God has Blessed us with 3 Super Kids; Stephanie, Nicole, and Bob, Jr.

I will share with you How Marriage has effected my Life.

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